I am so THANKFUL for stumbling blocks. And I'm also thankful that I'm recognizing them sooner as well.
I found out something negative someone had to say about me yesterday. It sent me into a momentary tailspin. I worked hard (and am still working) on figuring out the problem.
My first reaction was to pull back and not be who I want to be. "Oh yeah," I thought, "I'll show you." Then I really started to ponder about it. I like being positive and trying to reach my potential.
What was my stumbling block? Well, probably a couple. Caring about someone's negative judgment about me. Caring that they didn't want to be like me. :) But, almost giving into the temptation to be just as negative and judgmental.
I'm so thankful to that person who was negative. Because, I know myself better now. I have defined to a greater degree who would be a better influence and motivator for me.
I may sound selfish, but it's my blog. I'm choosing to be thankful. Thankful for blessings in disguise.
I read this quote today, that I really really liked.
"Gratitude is about shifting into appreciation and opening your perception to opportunity, instead of lack."
I don't know who wrote it, but it fits me perfectly right now.