Monday, May 26, 2008

Memorial Day

I remember when I was much younger, probably around 8 years old, my family was out in Sugar City, Idaho visiting my mom's parents and family.  It was the end of May, we had gone out from Virginia to celebrate my grandparents' 50th wedding anniversary.  It was an eventful trip.  We were there when the Teton Dam broke and destroyed my grandparents' home.  But before that, we celebrated their anniversary.  And before that, we remembered our ancestors.

I had never experienced a Memorial Day like that one.  I can still remember the day being sunny and beautiful and it was quite breezy.  My cousins and I ran around the backyard playing with one another and helped here and there the adults gathering and arranging the flowers to take to the cemeteries.  I remember it as a very good and loving memory.

That's all of the memory I retain.  I don't remember actually going to the cemeteries or any of the festivities that surely followed.  I remember the attitude of duty and love surrounding the preparations.

Today is Memorial Day.  I am thankful for those that serve and have served for my family.  So that my children can have a childhood.  I'm thankful that my children have sweet dreams and a feeling of contentment because of the great men and women and their wives,, husbands, mothers and fathers and children who are willing to sacrifice for my hopes and dreams.

I have a brother in law who serves in the Navy as a SEAL.  I love him.  I'm so grateful to him and his family for their sacrifice.  You couldn't meet a nicer guy.  He's being transferred to Guam here in a couple of months.  His wife and son are going with him this time because it'll be for 3 years instead of the normal 6 month deployment.  Such sacrifice.

We may not agree on the current political environment nor on the decisions made by the different branches of our great government, but I would hope we could all agree that we live in the greatest country on earth.  It's because of the sacrifices made by our forefathers and foremothers and by all of the sacrifices previous generations have made and the sacrifices we currently make.  We are a great nation.  How blessed we are to live here.

I'll keep rambling about my patriotism, so I'll just end.  But, it is with tears in my eyes that I declare my gratitude for all who serve this wonderful country.

Friday, May 23, 2008

"....a smidge."

Have you ever run across a word that you just over use?  I do it every once in a while.  Most people don't notice.  I can't hardly help myself when I'm in one of those grooves.

My new word is "smidge".  Is it even a word?  I don't know.  But it does convey the point.  Such as at the hairdresser.  "Are the bangs short enough?"  "No, will you take them up a smidge?"
The funny part is when she repeated me and said "...a smidge."  She knew exactly what I was talking about.

I usually include "just" in my description.  ie..."just a smidge".  That seems to work quite well. 

So, if you talk to me on the phone or in person and you hear me say "smidge", just smile to yourself and know that the phase won't last long. 

Friday, May 9, 2008

Five Dead Birds

Well, now you know the punchline of my day yesterday.

I do need to ask before I go on that no one reading this calls DYFS on me.

Yesterday morning (it's kinda rainy and damp) Lucy asks if I like birds. I said, "yeh, I guess". Nothing much more was said at that point. A little bit later they're asking to go outside. "After your work is done," I reply. Man---I should've known something was up because they moved on through their chores like wildfire.

They go outside. They come inside. Then they break the news. They have caught a little bird. They actually caught it the day before and just kept it. Remember, please don't involve the government. Supposedly, Joey had found the little bird (it had most of it's feathers) and I'm ashamend to admit that he smacked it with a stick because he "wanted a pet bird." So, it was unable to fly. There's more to the story, but really, you don't need to know.

I call around trying to find a wildlife reserve to take it. We were about to leave when Robbie went out to get it and came back saying that he thought it was dead. It was laying on its back with it's legs in the air.

One dead bird.

Ok, one of the reserve places I had left a message at finally called back. She told me to try and put the bird back in the nest if possible. (You needed to know that for the next half of the story)

Life gets back to normal the sun comes out an its a lovely day.

I'm eating lunch and just kinda resting. Robbie comes running in the house. They were by the trees in the back and all of a sudden four little baby birds just fell out of a nest. (Ok, I know I should've been more aware, but my spidey-senses just weren't working yesterday AT ALL!!!) I told them I'd be out in a minute. I assumed that these birds were the same size as the last one and they would be fine if the kids left them alone.

I finally make it outside to discover FOUR brand new just hatched baby robins. Only one was still breathing.

Four dead birds.

I gently scoop up the little living one in a towel and start to figure out what to do. I'm a short fat girl. I cannot climb a tree. The nest was on the end of a branch about 10 feet above me. I ain't Michael Jordan so there was no chance of a jump. We only had an extension ladder. I must warn you at this point that ALL of my senses left me and must have gone to a bar down the street, not to return until much later.

We drag the ladder to the area. My bright idea was for me to be the "wall" to hold the ladder and have one of the kids climb the ladder up to the nest. Robbie evidently was in full possession of his senses. He would have nothing to do with my idea. Joey however is my daredevil and started to climb.

It was going really well until the weight of the little boy nearly 10 feet in the air shifted the balance on the fulcrum (me). Talk about a teeter-totter. The ladder teetered and we all tottered. Joey went down pretty dang hard. The Lord was aware of the loss of my senses and did protect my son. He came away with a small bump on the head. Amazing really.

I quickly sweep him up and carry him in the house apologizing to him that I didn't mean for him to get hurt. He didn't really believe me. This is where the story gets really good. I'm rushing around getting him bags of ice for his various bumps and bruises along with some Tylenol, when Robbie starts bawling hysterically. I assumed he was just upset at what happned to his brother. No. Not really.

He stops me to tell me that I'm going to be mad at him. Ok. Keep talking. He then tells me that it was all his fault that the birds fell out of their nest. He had thrown a big stick at the nest and they all just fell out. Both Lucy AND Joey knew Robbie had done this. They were accomplices. Only because I injured Joey did he not get in trouble at that moment.

So now Robbie, Lucy and Joey are crying uncontrollably. I got Joey taken care of and went about figuring out what to do with the other little bird. I was going to have to create some type of an incubator until Sam got home to help me get it back in the nest. Lucy had been holding it in the towel while all of this had been going on. I open up the littel towel to talk to the little bird and reassure it that we were trying to help him/her. I opened the towel and the bird was gone. I ask Lucy where the bird was. She didn't know. That sent her into another fit of crying.

I walk through the kitchen to see if it had fallen out. Not in the kitchen. I start out the back door and there it lay, on the cement right under the door. Dead.

FIVE dead birds.

I took it out back to bury it. The mama or papa robin was in its nest. It acted as if there were more babies. It had a worm in its mouth and settled down in the nest as if it was keeping its babies warm. I cried. I said I was sorryand I begged for forgiveness for my children and for myself.

Later in the day Robbie came downstairs to talk to me. I told him to back to his room. He started to cry and said that he needed help repenting because he had never done it before. That night during scripture study, we just happened to read a verse that talked about God's creations--including the fowl of the air. After explaining what fowl is/are, we continued to teach them about the sanctity of life and of God's love for us all. We also taught them their first real-life lesson on how to repent. And they did.

I never wish to relive that day. I would probably make the same mistakes. I'm a slow learner. I'm so sorry for all of the birds that gave their lives that my children could learn priceless lessons about repentance, life and the Father's great love. I am grateful for the adventures we all get to experience during our sojourn on earth. Some are pretty fun and super exciting. Some are not so fun but they teach us valuable lessons that we'll NEVER forget.

Monday, May 5, 2008

Happy Cinco De Mayo!!!

The 5th of May. What a wonderful day for a fun spur of the moment celebration. I'm cooking up some Lime & Tequila marianated chicken tenderloins I found at Sam's Club last week.

My newest obsession is homefried corn tortillas. I could eat those until I drop. I have done that in the past. Geesh!!! That's just good eatin'.

I made brownies already but I cooked them too long so they're a bit dried out. The kids ate most of them anyway. Maybe I'll make another batch and add a little cinnamon for Mexican Brownies with vanilla (pronounced va-nee-ya today) ice cream and yummy hot fudge sauce.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Nothing Much to Say

I haven't written since my birthday. Geesh, that's been two weeks ago. Nothing much has happened really. I did go to Charlotte, NC for a(n) Heritage Makers meeting.

I'm a consultant for Heritage Makers, you can check out my website at www.storybookpros.com . This is really cool. You can sign up for a free account as well. Maria--you'll totally love this.

You can take your digital photos and scrapbook them into hardcover library bound (stitched) books. They really are nice. If I can figure out how to put my kids' book in my blog, I'll link it out. I think that upgrade comes out on May 12th.

Tha whole mission of the company is to create and publish stories that will last forever. When I go to my parents' house this summer, I plan on collecting as many photos of my deceased brother as I can. I'm going to write "his" book so that my children will know who their uncle is. I'm looking forward to it, eventhough I know my eyes will tear and I'll get choked up because I miss him. He's been gone for 18 years now, but it's still feels so raw at times.

Because I was serving a mission at the time of his death, I didn't come home. I didn't get to see him and close it all out. I think I have struggled because of that lack of closure, expecially the first couple of years right after he died. I believe writing his story will help me put it where it belongs. I often feel his spirit close by. Even now, my eyes water because I miss him.

So, that's just part of what this business is about. You can design and publish your own greeting cards, calendars and posters along with the books.

The other cool thing about this business is that Sam has a 10 station computer (mac) training center. I'll be using that to hold digi-scrapping nights/classes. I had the Young Women over last night for them to create Mother's Day cards. Everyone had a really good time. It does get quite addictive. We're going to call that aspect Digi-Scrap n Scan. I'm working on a website for that. Though the learning curve is quite steep on the website design software....for me, that is.

Ok, time for bed. Tomorrow the kids have their Jr. Master Gardening class. It's been a good opportunity for them to do something in a classroom setting and they're meeting other children their ages.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

My birthday continued

So, after I wrote the first post for my birthday, life just got really exciting. My poor little Leah fell off her bike and the cement won the fight. She busted open her little lip and that stringy thing up in the inside of your top lip. You can see how big it swelled. It's actually worse in person.

She cried for about 45 mins which is very unlike her. Once the Tylenol started working, she fell asleep for a few minutes before we had to leave and take Lucy to singing lessons.













Singing lessons, then the bank and onto Deptford High School to vote in school board/tax increase elections. Back home to get ready for Robbie's baseball game. Sarah Blamires stopped by with a plate of the most INCREDIBLE chocolate cake I've ever been priviledged to inhale. Boy oh boy. I saved a few pieces that I will eat in the privacy of my own little world.

THANK YOU Sarah!!!

Off to the baseball game. Not such a good one. They tied after losing a huge lead.

We went to Ruby Tuesday's for dinner because I refused to eat frozen pizza for my birthday dinner.

When we got home, Leah had another fall. She must have tripped getting out of the truck. She ended up with the biggest goose egg I've even seen. So, you'll now be able to see the final outcome Leah's injuries. She looks like she's had the snot beat out of her. She had a rough day.











My poor little Leah. Sleeping on her daddy after a very long and painful day.

What Leah Says


Yub-oo = Love You

Hah-no = I don't know

D D = Lucy

Eda = Leah

Gamma = Gramma

Gampa = Grampa

dubba-doo = W

kank-oo = Thank You

Bop-u-top = Bop to the Top = High School Musical